Men's Sexual Mastery
Are you a high-impact brother ready to deepen in your sexual mastery and step into your full potential as a lover?
Are you seeking more confidence, vitality, and empowerment in your relationships?
Are you single and trying to magnetize your ideal partner?
Do you struggle with performance anxiety, incontinence, or low libido in the bedroom?
Have you heard of men having multiple orgasms but don't know where to begin?
Have you practiced semen retention but feel like the energy is stagnant?
Are you struggling with sex or porn addiction?
Are you looking for support and accountability in stepping into your journey to sexual mastery?
You've come to the right place.
Welcome to Men's Sexual Mastery
Join the Brotherhood.
Sign up here to join our email list.
The core mission at Men's Sexual Mastery is to awaken, align, and empower each man into stepping into his fullest sexual potential.
We offer online courses, group and individual coaching, as well as live events to provide all the knowledge, tools and support needed for every man to cultivate and maintain peak levels of sexual performance and embodiment.
We believe that suppression is a losing game.
We believe that unrestrained hedonism is also a losing game.
The secret lies in what's referred to as the Middle Path.
We combine ancient sexual mastery techniques with cutting edge behavioral neuroscience to provide a comprehensive framework that has helped countless men align and empower their sexual energy.
Meet the Founders
Ben Timby is a transformational coach and spiritual guide who founded Men’s Sexual Mastery in 2024. His expertise is built on a rich foundation of Tantric and Taoist sexual alchemy practices, learned from esteemed teachers such as Mantak Chia, Chris Bale, Jonathan White, and Kim Anami.
Ben’s journey began in a conservative religious background, where he experienced sexual suppression, porn addiction, and severe depression and anxiety. Through his personal transformation, Ben discovered the profound impact of transforming one’s sexuality on overall well-being and spiritual connection. This realization led him to create Men’s Sexual Mastery, an online course, community, and coaching platform.
Men’s Sexual Mastery aims to empower men by integrating ancient practices with modern behavioral neuroscience and psychology. The mission is to awaken, align, and empower men to reach their fullest sexual potential. By fostering conscious alignment with sexual energy, Ben believes that men can tap into a divine gift that can heal ancestral traumas of abuse and destruction while simultaneously connecting to levels of orgasmic bliss and pleasure that will transform their lives.
In 2025, Ian Hawks joined the Men’s Sexual Mastery team in a re-launch as Co-Founder. Deeply aligned in their mission and values, Ian and Ben forged an alliance to bring through the most potent and impactful Men’s Sexual Mastery program possible.
Ian serves as an initiatory guide, breathwork facilitator, and sacred sexuality mentor. His path has been one of deep devotion—to the Earth, to the feminine, and to the awakening potential of men.
After spending 12 years in the wilderness facing the elements and meeting the edges of his physical and mental capacity, he developed an unshakable reverence for nature’s wisdom—a devotion that now expresses through his intimate partnership, his dedication to equalizing the orgasm gap, and his work guiding men to embody the truth of their being.
Alongside his beloved, he supports couples in deepening intimacy and dissolving the barriers to trust, connection, and eros. His mission is to awaken men to the sacred depths of our sexuality—in doing so we will individually and collectively restore harmony between the masculine and feminine.